왜 이런 참극이, 열심히 휴일도 없다시피 해서 열심히 일해서 가족부양했던 현정씨에게 일어났는가. 이런 비극을 맞이 할려고 미국까지 어렵게 이민온것은 아니었는데.....세상이 왜 이래. 22살된 큰아들은, 어머니는 우리 형제를 부양하면서 가족의 생계를 책임지고 휴일도 없이 열심히 이하면서도 웃음을 잃지않고, 삶을 즐겼었던 엄마였었다고 오열했다.
"내가 아직 어렸을때, 엄마는 진공소제기를 사용하여 방청소를 할때도 마이클 잭슨이 춤추던 식으로 댄스를 하면서 삶을 즐긴 엄마였었다"라고 기억하고 있다.
화요일 저녁에 큰 아들 박씨는 집에서 비디오게임을 하고 있었는데, 갑자기 총성이, 그의 엄마가 일하고있는 마사지팔러에서 터저나온것을 알고, 사고현장으로 달려갔었다가, 어떤 상황인가를 알아보기위해 다시 경찰서로 달렸다. 그러나 그곳에서 그의 어머니가 살해당했다는것을 알게된다.
어머니 Grant씨는 아틀란타 지역에 있는 3군데의 마사지팔러에서 총격을 당해 살해된 8명중의 한명이었다. Fulton지역의 시체검안의사는 금요일 다른 3명의 희생자와 함께 신원확인을 발표했는데, 다른 3명은 74세의 박순정씨, 69세의 김순자씨, 그리고 63세의 유영애씨였다.
사고가 난후 3일만에 아틀란타를 찾은 바이든 대통령은 "증오와 폭력은 보이는곳에 숨어있고 침묵과 자주 만난다. 이는 우리역사 내내 사실이었다. 이제 바뀌어야한다. 모두가 목소리를 내고 행동해야한다. 미국은 증오의 피난처가 될수없다. 증오범죄는 중단돼야한다"라고 강조했다.
https://www.chosun.com/international/2021/03/20/I5FJO2JTGVF6VG2VDXL62ZPNKM/
이사고로 아들 박씨는 무척힘들어 했는데, 그의 어머니는 법적으로 성씨가 "Grant"여서 그의 어머니 시신을 확실히 확인하는데 매우 복잡했었기 때문이었다. 어머니의 성씨는 그가 기억하지 못하는 결혼에서 남자의 성을 따랐기 때문이었으며, 그로 인해서 서류상에서 그자신이 바로 직계가족인것을 증명하는데 어려움이 많았었다고 한다.
엄마가 하던일은 마사지팔러의 특성상 별로 밖에 알리고싶지않은 고충이 있음을 설명하면서, 매우 민감한 작업이었었다고 한다. 그래서 엄마는 두아들에게 말하기를, 엄마의 친구들에게 얘기할때는 얼굴화장하는 일을 하고 있다라고 듣기좋게 들려줬다는 것이다. 아들 박씨는 얘기하기를 엄마가 어떤일을 했다는게 숨길일은 아니었었다라고 설명해주었다.
"엄마는 나와 내동생을 무척 사랑했으며, 우리형제를 위해 그녀의 전인생을 헌신하면서열심히 일한 어머니였습니다. 그것으로 우리는 엄마에게 충분히 감사해 하고 있습니다." 라고 슬픔을 달랬다.
그런데 오늘 아침 뉴스(3월 20일)에 의하면, 지난 수년간 경찰은, 그곳 Mayor가 발표한, 스파 팔러는 정상적으로 영업을 해왔던 것이라고 밝힌내용과는 다른, 불법섹스장사를 한 혐의를 두고 조사를 해왔었다고 발표했다. 경찰조사 기록에 의하면 지난 10여년동안에 경찰은 최소한 21차례의 스파팔러 영업지역을 방문했으며, 경찰조사에서 처럼, 희생자들을 비난하지 말기를 원한다고 Mayor, Bottom씨는 설명했다.
http://lifemeansgo.blogspot.com/2021/03/blog-post_19.html
Published Friday, March 19, 2021 7:00PM EDT
ATLANTA - Hyun Jung Grant loved disco and club music, often strutting or moonwalking while doing household chores and jamming with her sons to tunes blasting in the car.
The single mother found ways to enjoy herself despite working “almost every day” to support two sons, said the older son, 22-year-old Randy Park.
“I learned how to moonwalk because, like, I saw her moonwalking while vacuuming when I was a kid,” Park said.
On Tuesday night, Park was at home playing video games when he heard a gunman had opened fire at the Atlanta massage business where his mother worked. He rushed to the scene and then to a police station to find out more information. But it was through word of mouth that he learned his mother was dead.
Grant, 51, was among eight people killed by gunfire at three Atlanta-area massage businesses. The Fulton County medical examiner released her identity Friday along with those of three other victims: Soon Chung Park 74; Suncha Kim, 69; and Yong Ae Yue, 63.
Authorities in nearby Cherokee County had previously identified the others as Delaina Ashley Yaun, 33; Paul Andre Michels, 54; Daoyou Feng, 44; and Xiaojie Tan, 49, who owned one of the massage businesses.
Seven of the slain were women, and six of them were of Asian descent. Police charged a 21-year-old white man with the killings, saying he was solely responsible for the deadliest U.S. mass shooting since 2019.
The situation has been harrowing for Park, who said he has not been able to claim his mother's body from the medical examiner's office because of a complication with her last name, which is legally Grant. Park said that name is from a marriage he does not recall, and he can't find papers showing a separation to prove that he is the next of kin.
Authorities have said Robert Aaron Long, who is charged with eight counts of murder, told them he wasn't motivated by race. Park dismissed the idea that the shootings weren't fueled by anti-Asian sentiment. Still, he said that his mother raised him to believe that people are fundamentally good, though “sometimes, things go horribly wrong.”
It wasn't immediately clear which of the Atlanta businesses employed Grant.
Her job was a sensitive subject, Park said, noting the stigma often associated with massage businesses. She told her sons that they should tell others she worked doing makeup with her friends.
Ultimately, Park said, he didn't care what she did for work.
“She loved me and my brother enough to work for us, to dedicate her whole life,” he said. “That's enough.”
Michels owned a business installing security systems, a trade he learned after moving to the Atlanta area more than 25 years ago.
He'd been talking about switching to a new line of work, but never got the chance. He was fatally shot at Youngs Asian Massage on Tuesday along with three others.
“From what I understand, he was at the spa that day doing some work for them,” said Michels' younger brother, John Michels of Commerce, Michigan.
Paul Michels also might have been talking with the spa's owner about how the business operates, his brother said, because he had been thinking about opening a spa himself.
“His age caught up to him. You get to a point where you get tired of climbing up and down ladders,” John Michels said. “He was actually looking to start his own massage spa. That's what he was talking about last year.”
Paul Michels grew up in Detroit in a large family where he was the seventh of nine children. His brother John was No. 8.
Though they were born 2 1/2 years apart, “he was basically my twin,” John Michels said. Both enlisted in the Army after high school, with Paul joining the infantry.
A few years after leaving the military, Paul followed his brother to the Atlanta area in 1995 for a job doing low-voltage electrical work, installing phones and security systems. He also met his wife, Bonnie, and they were married more than 20 years.
“He was a good, hard-working man who would do what he could do to help people,” John Michels said. “He'd loan you money if you needed it sometimes. You never went away from his place hungry.”
They day before she was killed, Yaun dropped by Rita Barron's boutique to say hello and show photos of her 8-month-old daughter.
“She told me, 'I'm happy. I want another baby,”' said Barron, who had gotten to know Yaun from eating at the Waffle House where the new mother worked.
Yuan and her new husband returned Tuesday to the shopping centre where Gabby's Boutique is located, only this time they headed next door to Youngs Asian Massage. They had planned it as a day for Yaun to relax while a relative watched their baby girl.
Barron and her husband, Alejandro Acosta, heard gunshots from inside the boutique and later noticed that a bullet had gone through the wall. She called 911, and after police arrived Acosta watched them bring people out of the business, some bleeding and wounded. Among those who walked out was Yaun's husband, unhurt but distraught. His wife had been killed.
“As you can imagine, he's totally destroyed, without strength, doesn't want to talk with anybody,” said Acosta, who added that he had spoken twice with Yaun's husband since the shootings.
Family members said Yaun and her husband were first-time customers at Youngs, eager for a chance to unwind.
“They're innocent. They did nothing wrong,” Yaun's weeping mother, Margaret Rushing, told WAGA-TV. “I just don't understand why he took my daughter.”
This story has been edited to correct the name of Youngs Asian Massage.
Bynum reported from Savannah, Georgia. Associated Press writer Michael Warren in Atlanta contributed to this report.
https://www.cp24.com/world/slain-spa-worker-toiled-tirelessly-to-support-her-family-1.5354869
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