Harry왕자, "엄마의 죽음으로 괴로운 잊기위해 한때 술과 마약에 쩔었었다"고 실토. 졸지에 사랑하는 엄마를 어린 나이에 잃었으니.... 그심정 충분히 이해할것 같다만.... 그래서 Blind Date에서 지금의 아내를 만나게 된 계기가 됐었나?
지금은 성인이 되여 사회생활을 하지만, 그의 어머니가 세상을 떠났을 즈음엔 그는 좀 과장되게 표현 한다면, 새장속의 외로운 새 한마리같은, 새장밖의 사람들은 새장속의 새를 마치 애완견을 사랑하듯이 대했을테지만, 그자신은 개인의 행동이 극히 제약을 받는, 외형과는 전혀다른 창살없는 감옥같은 답답함을 느끼면서 정신적 고통을 견뎌내야 했었을 것이다.
Prince Harry왕자는, 그가 거의 방탕생활을 했었던 20후반과 30초반에 왕실의 생활에 많은 번거로움에 대한 정신적 압력을 극복하느라 겪었던 일들에 대한 심경을 자세히 밝혔었다.
결국 그는 왕실의 후손으로서의 모든 지위를 반납하고, 아내 Meagan을 따라 미국으로 삶의 터전을 옮겨 살고 있는데, 그의 기이한 행동은 남의 말 하기 좋아하는 세상사람들에게는 좋은 안주거리가 될수는 있어도, 아버지 Charles보다 더 왕실의 품격을 추락 시키는 행동은 계속이러질 것이다.
Oprah Winfrey와의 대담에서 당시 12세의 어렸던 그로서는 그의 어머니를 잃은 슬픔에 무척 화가 났었으며, 그후 수년간은 그의 주변사람들은 일체 그의 어머니의 죽음에 대해서 얘기를 꺼낸적이 없었다고 했다.
또한 Harry는 성인이 된후 심한 정신적 고통과 고민에 대한 심경을 자세히 설명하기도 했었다.
Harry의 솔직담백한 심경고백은 왕실과 해리왕자 부부와의 어긋장난 관계와 와중에 나왔다는게 좀 특이하다고 하겠다. 이렇게 영국왕실과의 불화설이 계속되고 있는 와중에도 Sussex공은 그의 형, William과 지난달 그의 할아버지 Philip공의장례식때 재회하면서 했었다.
앞으로 그의 아내와 미국에서의 삶은 많은 화제거리를 생산할것으로 보인다. 그결과가 영국 왕실에 좋은 영향을 끼치든, 나쁜 영향을 끼치든간에 계속될 것으로 예측된다. 왕실의 한 구성원으로서의 삶에 많은 제약이 함께 한다는것을 이해를 하면서도, 그만큼 특혜(?)를 누리면, 반대급부의 불편함도 감수했어야 했는데....
Harry discussed mental health with Oprah Winfrey, in a wide-ranging interview for their Apple TV+ documentary series that aims to remove the stigma around the topic.
He spoke of the loss of his mother during the program and said that as a child he was "so angry with what happened to her." The Duke of Sussex, who was 12 when Princess Diana died in 1997, said that in the years that followed few people around him discussed her death.
Harry also revealed that he coped with panic attacks and severe anxiety as an adult.
"28 to probably 32 was a nightmare time in my life," he said.
As a young royal with a party lifestyle, Harry was frequently featured in the
UK's tabloid press.
The prince said he drank heavily while unhappy. "I would probably drink a week's worth in one day on a Friday or a Saturday night," he told Winfrey. "And I would find myself drinking not because I was enjoying it but because I was trying to mask something."
"I was willing to drink, I was willing to take drugs," he said, adding: "I was willing to try and do the things that made me feel less like I was feeling."
The series with Winfrey comes after he participated in several high-profile interviews in which he discussed his mental health and his life in the royal spotlight.
"The Me You Can't See" focuses on stories meant to lift the veil on the current state of mental health. Harry co-created and executive-produced the show with Winfrey.
It also features appearances from celebrities including singer
Lady Gaga, actress
Glenn Close and NBA player DeMar DeRozan, who discuss their experiences of poor mental health.
Harry and his wife, Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, stepped back from life as working royals in 2020. They have since moved to California.
The pair have been open about their difficulties with the British monarchy.
Harry said earlier this year that he made the decision to walk away as the role was "destroying" his mental health.
For her part, Meghan told Winfrey in a
bombshell interview in March that she contemplated suicide while pregnant with the couple's son, Archie.
CNN has launched Royal News, a new weekly dispatch bringing you the inside track on the royal family, what they are up to in public and what's happening behind palace walls. Sign up here. https://www.cnn.com/2021/05/21/world/prince-harry-oprah-drinking-scli-intl-gbr/index.html
https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/tv/2021/05/21/prince-harry-meghan-markle-therapy-princess-diana-past-drug-use/5185645001/
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